Saturday 2 December 2017

MOLLY'S GAME

Recommended. I know no poker rules so I didn't understand the tricks but Jessica Chastain hypnotised me and persuaded the tactics were cunning. Ironic that just 2 days after seeing a documentary about Freud being an influential fraudster I watched the one in which Molly Bloom's father ridicules psychotherapy analysing her subconscious in 3 minutes and commenting "how fast it goes when you don't charge by the hour". He's spot on noticing her desire to control powerful men and that he raised all his 3 kids to be world-class champions. Molly's wits and diligence combined with her unwaveringly high self-esteem brought her recognition over and over again. It appears that plenty of the rich and famous are gamblers. So is Molly. And just like them, she only bets high.


WARSAW JEWISH FILM FESTIVAL

KILLING THE FIDDLER

Watchable. A short film about the choice of a wife. With family photographs talking to the groom as if in "Harry Potter". They argue in a funny, cute way. It ends with "The Fiddler on the Roof" music. I guess the killing the fiddler (in "The Fiddler on the Roof" there's an exchange: "Do you love me?" "I'm your wife. You have me!") means getting married out of love instead of for the functionality of a marriage. The maker doesn't make it clear though.

MR. BERNSTEIN

Recommended. Incredible how many emotions such a short film can evoke. Deeply moving and beautiful - about how a shared memory and common tradition unite people whose worlds wouldn't meet otherwise.

KOSHER LOVE

Recommended. You have to make a list of what you want in your life partner and another one of what you can bring in and see if they match. Many people nowadays get "married" to their jobs and hobbies and find no place for another human being. At the same time, as the Hasidic rabbi explains, love takes time so you need to find the person, have your family check their background, get married and "hopefully after 10 years" you'll find love. He's so convincing you wish you were part of a Jewish community enabling that.

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